Favorite Things


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One of my most favorite things of all is a Girls Weekend away. Last weekend, 8 of my friends gathered from all over the country to spend our 21st weekend together in 21 years. Though we’d like to say we started these weekends when we were twelve, the reality is they began back in our college days at Indiana University. It has become, what Lisa-Jo, Emily, and Nester call a “social bench” in my life. I have the sweetest memories with these girls.

Last year, we adopted one of Nester’s other ideas (which is starting to make this post sound stalkerish) called “Favorite Things.” This has quickly become our favorite thing of the weekend.  The idea is that you gather with a group of friends and you bring the same gift for each friend. It has to be something you found over the past year that you love and you want to share. I thought you might want to see and hear about some our favorite things:

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  • Target Dollar Spot goodies with recipe cards, glows sticks and the cutest egg turner you have ever seen. Joy in a $1 oven mitt does not have to be expensive.
  • True Blue Hand Cream from Bath and Body Works that is divine. I was so glad it was only 2.5 ounces because I was worried I could not take in my carry-on bag. People, it has paraffin in it and will make your hands happy.
  • A reusable Starbucks Coffee cup that gets me 10 cents off when I remember to bring it with me for coffee dates. Oh yeah, a gift that keeps on giving!

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    • An Electronic screen cleaner is much needed because mine are all gooey from kids borrowing all my i – devices. My friend Judy knows this and bought them for all of us moms.
    • This lip balm called Zumbo-Kiss, buy it in bulk, thank me later.
    • Shut the door, homemade granola I may or may not give you the recipe for later. It did not even make on the plane. I devoured it.
    • This book, “A Gospel Primer”  (*affiliate link) is going to be worn out this summer by me.

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  • Homemade treats (these Lemon-Melt Aways are AMAZing) and lots of ideas on how to live healthier  with Container Store goodness. Now in O-town! Yippee!
  • My gift to the girls was my fave “Together” necklace from Dayspring *(affiliate link). I think they loved it. (special thanks to Saul at Dayspring for making it possible!)

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What have you found recently to be a Favorite Thing? I’d love to hear in the comments! 

Have a great weekend!

xo,

Stacey

P.S. Also a favorite, dessert in a shot glass. Who thought of this? Mmm…

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Dear Weary Mom

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You can find the original Dear Weary Mom letter I wrote right here. It is the first page really of a long letter. This is the second page. My friends over at the new Hope for the Weary Mom blog, decided to turn this into a  weekly series and ask all the moms to write letters and link them up. I think it is a great idea. 

Dear Weary Mom,

I’m so glad you are here. I know you probably should be cooking dinner or washing something, or maybe you are doing that while reading this right now. Sometimes people ask me how I do “it” all and I think to myself, “A weary mom gets real good at doing 5 things at once or she drowns in all of it.” True right? I can read, cook dinner, find the remote, and take my toddler to the bathroom all at the same time. It may not be college level calculus – but it is real world math.

I’ve been thinking lately about what hope really is. It all started some time after the book came out and I was praying for God to give me  fresh world about it. I had spent the whole day begging for a word from Him. Face down, on my bed He made it clear what it was down in the core of the message:

H – Honest about where you are

O – Openly inviting Him into your mess

P – Pray like you need Him every hour

E – Encouraging your heart with His Word (daily)

This is what Hope is really about. You want to know the truth?This message is the Gospel for moms. It is the Gospel for everyone. See, we all have to come to a place where we realize we can’t, but He can. We all find ourselves crying out to Him to meet us in our lives. We talk to Him through prayer which is really our hearts begging for Him to meet us for real and right now. His Word – it is our lifeblood that strengthens us. Since Jesus is the Word made Flesh, we are really crying out for Him. Lord be strong in our lives.

I preach this to myself over and over every day. I need a reminder  that this message is not just for you. But it is for me. I am the needy one. I cling to it. What I’ve realized more in the past few weeks is  motherhood has shown my neediness in a whole new way. This gospel of Hope is my answer.

I read this recently:

“The gospel is so foolish (according to my natural wisdom), so scandalous (according to my conscience), and so incredible (according to my timid heart), that it is a a daily battle to believe the full scope of it as I should. There is simply no other way to compete with the forebodings of my conscience, the condemning of my heart, and the lies of the world with the Devil than to overwhelm such things with daily rehearsing of the gospel.” Milton Vincent, A Gospel Primer for Christians, p 14

Hope helps me daily rehearse the Gospel. My heart and mind they condemn me night and day. But the Gospel? It is an incredible dose of hope for my heart. Hope can overwhelm me in a different way.

Oh mama, do you preach it to yourself all day long, too? Please know, that you are not alone. This is His heart for you—all day long, every day, during the crazy, and while you are doing five things at once.

Hope is the Gospel. It is for your heart. It is for mine. It is real. There is a reason it speaks to our hearts. It is because Jesus is the one doing the talking. He loves us, He wants to be all that we need. He wants to be our strength all day long.

So preach on Weary Mom. Preach on. . . 

xo,

Stacey

(to read other letters just for your heart, visit the Dear Weary Mom link up each Thursday right here.)

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What I Wore

What I Wore Wednesday is:

Get up. Get dressed. Remember to snap a photo. Share it on Wednesday. Fun friends stop by and you chat about it.

And I kinda love it!

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Friday I sent out a Instagram and asked what I should wear for my travel day to my annual IU girls weekend. This was what my Instagram people chose! They did a great job I think!

Jacket: Loft

Tanks: (orange reddish one) Target, White: Old Navy

Jeans: Lucky Brand

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Girls weekend was awesome! I wore this on Saturday. We ate the best breakfast in town, exchanged our Favorite Things (Fun!), shopped, ate some more and painted our nails while we talked late into the night. Perfect day.

Cardigan: Loft

T-Shirt: Loft

Jeans: Same as above

Shoes: Loft

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Happy Birthday to me! Yes, I celebrated my 42nd birthday Monday and Mothers Day Sunday. It was 2 days of awesome. I wore this to go out to dinner with my family to my favorite BBQ place. Mmm… There was also cake and ice cream involved.

Cardigan:  Loft (Love the short sleeves for summer!)

V-neck T-shirt: Kohls

Jeans: CAbi

Belt: American Eagle

Shoes: Same as above

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I hope you have a groovy Wednesday.

xo,

Stacey

If you love What I Wore, check out the other girls at the Pleated Poppy!

P.S. I may have bought 2 new cardigans on my girls weekend shopping trip. I can’t be stopped girls.

 

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Hope and Dreams

Yesterday was my 42nd birthday. I got up, drank coffee, read my Bible, and ate oatmeal. When my girls woke up I made them breakfast.

Sometime early, I read this on our Hope for the Weary Mom Facebook Page:

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I was a bit overwhelmed. In the middle of my very ordinary I’m turning 42 day, I found out a sweet mum read “Hope” over the weekend and is sharing it with her friends. IN AUSTRALIA.

The truth is friend, sometimes our dreams go places we never imagined them going. This is because God Sized Dreams are fueled not by us, but by our amazing Father in heaven. He knows all about mums in Australia and a tiny ebook called Hope. He knows perfectly how to bring them together.

Today, this is happening:

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I’m very excited and I have no idea where God is going to take it. We are simply following His lead.

Hope for the Weary Mom is now a place you can come each week to for encouragement, community, and hope for your life as mom. We have been praying for well over a year and asking God how He wanted us to keep spreading hope. You see, this has always been His Story, His Message for all the weary moms out there. Brooke and I have been blessed as much as you have by what He has poured out through this book. He was speaking to our hearts, too. Our passion today, is to keep the truth ofHope in front of us daily and to share it with as many moms as we possibly can.

I’d love for you to pop in over there, today and each Tues-Thursday whether you are from Kokomo, Ann Arbor, or Australia. Everyone is invited. We are having an amazing book bundle giveaway. Plus, there are some super awesome writer moms who will be gathering over there, too. I think you will love them as much as I do. Just click the logo below.

 

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xo,

Stacey

 

 

 

 

 

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“Hey Mom, I’m Bored…”

Summer is coming. You can guarantee after the celebration from school being on break for a few days wears off, your kids will say this over and over:

“Hey Mom, I’m bored…”

At the Thacker house, when someone says “I’m bored,” I take this as a cue to give them a chore. They groan. I feel a small victory. Though it gets those nasty chores finished, it does not move me closer to “Mom of the Year” in their eyes. Sometimes, I’d take that over clean bathrooms.

Truth 1: I am not an outdoor mom

Truth 2: I am not a ‘fun’ mom.

Truth 3: This is why God gave us mommy friends who are.

Enter my friend Jen Murray.

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(Jen and I at .dotMom this past September)

She is a mom of four, just like me. But, she  had them all at once and they are all boys. She has more than a few good ideas on how to have adventure this summer with your kid.  She is awesome and wrote it down in an ebook for moms like me who need a little love in that department:

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Jen sent me a preview copy last week and I sent her my thoughts:

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The cost of this ebook is only $4.99. So you are $4.99 away from having a great summer plan for the I’m bored days. You can get it at Amazon or through E-Junkie by clicking the link above the image. Both of these links are affiliate links for me, so if you click and buy I get a small compensation. In effort to fully disclose my intentions, you should know I will be using that compensation to buy zip line tools and make coffee can ice cream.

Thanks Jen. You are awesome.

*affiliate links contained in this post

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What I Wore

Welcome to Wednesday! You made it. I made it. This feels strangely like a huge accomplishment for me this week. What is it with the month of May? It feels like the end of a marathon and I’m just limping across the finish line. So this week, I’m carb loading or rather M&M loading. That is so much better.

Here is what I Wore, friends. It is not too exciting, but I’m sharing it anyway!

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Ye old faithful, maxi skirt and t-shirt. I love how easy this is to wear. So easy, I don’t even need shoes. But if I did, they’d be flip flops or sandals.

Shirt: Loft

Skirt: Kohls

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Stitch Fix Dress*, dressed up with a cardigan and necklace. Yes, I may wear it every week for the next six. I love it.

Dress: Stitchfix *(referral link)

Cardigan: Old Navy

Shoes: Target

Necklace: Dayspring

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I wore this yesterday and really liked how it looked. I like the black and the pop of floral. It was great until I got too hot for the scarf. Do you scarf in the summer?

T-Shirt, scarf, and shoes: Loft

Jeans: Lucky

Belt: American Eagle, (similar loop scarf)

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I hope you have a great day. Just keep running, I’m cheering for you!

(linking up with Lindsey today)

*referral link = if you click and shop I get a small credit. Thank you by the way!

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